How To Deal With Dorm LifeAugust 17th, 2009 by Jason Stollham |
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Most of the students are very enthusiastic about living independently in a college dormitory. Though there are many advantages of living in a dormitory, you will need to adapt some skills to cope up with diverse situations and live with strangers in harmony.
The following are some guidelines you need to follow to survive your dorm life.
Dealing with your roommate:
In order to make your college days comfortable you need to develop a good relationship with your room mate. Thereby avoid doing such things or behaving in a way that you will find annoying. These are some of the tips for dealing with your room mate:
- Be courteous and try to understand your room mate’s requirements.
- Keep the noise down and clean your part of the room regularly.
- Putting the lights on till late night regularly is indeed annoying. In case there is an emergency ask permission from your room mate.
- Be open to your room mate and tell them directly if you are having trouble with any of their habits.
- Decide some home rules and schedules together with your room mate.
How to confront:
Use tactful conversation to sough out the problems you are having with regards to your room mate’s attitude or habits. You need to respect the other’s viewpoint as well. The other confrontation tactics include:
- Tell the specific problem to your room mate politely and try to find out a solution together.
- Keep in mind that your room mate is also paying and thus have equal rights to get a fair treatment from you.
- Be open enough for any future comments or compromise.
- Report directly to the dormitory supervisor in case the problem continues even after a polite confrontation.
How to ascertain your territory:
Be considerate about the living space of your room. Since you have to share an already small space, put your possessions only in the part of the room that belongs to you. Divide the room evenly and if possible share certain things to avoid doubling. If you want to create boundaries be polite. You can use mats or carpets to indicate your part of the room.



